Love, kindness, and forgiveness are superpowers, which unfortunately is lacking.
People can hurt other for different reasons:
Ignorance- they do things oblivious to how it’s affecting others. Hopefully letting them know and educating them might help.
Psychological- Hurt people wind up hurting people. They may have a psychic wound that causes insecurity and attacking others if they feel threatened. Can be helped if they are willing to open up, but can take time.
Narcissist: It’s all about them and they don’t care about the feelings of others. These types should be avoided.
mikalaa 
For what it’s worth, you’re not an idiot. Some people just good at *manipulating* others.
Thank you ….. feel silly and hopeless at the same time…..
Love, kindness, and forgiveness are superpowers, which unfortunately is lacking.
People can hurt other for different reasons:
Ignorance- they do things oblivious to how it’s affecting others. Hopefully letting them know and educating them might help.
Psychological- Hurt people wind up hurting people. They may have a psychic wound that causes insecurity and attacking others if they feel threatened. Can be helped if they are willing to open up, but can take time.
Narcissist: It’s all about them and they don’t care about the feelings of others. These types should be avoided.
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!