You are fired


No matter how good you have been.

No matter how hard you worked.

No matter how big contribution in your career history.

That’s history. 

When you have no more value to a company, you have to leave. 

That’s the real commercial world.  Only those strong enough could stay. 

Just can’t understand why people keep smiling while they saw people being fired.  Not even a sense of sympathy?  





How many friends you have in social network? 

I tried to minimize it.  Need to remember everyone.  Not just put people on the list.  They are my friends.  Not merely a photo with name.  A guy tried to convince me, he could manage more than three thousands friends on his list.  I don’t want to be one of his three thousands and something.   Not even bother to give him a chance showing how he could do that. 

I do clean up my friend’s list regularly.  Will yell on my status before doing that. Those not communicate will be out. 

As less than 200 friends on my list, easily to spot out if being defriend..  Well, it is sad and hurt.  Seems I am good enough to be friends.  Was defriend by the first guy I dated on FB.  A nice gentleman.  Made me felt likes a princess on every dates. Anyway, I have no lucks.  I thought we were good friends.  Haven’t met up for awhile after he relocated to somewhere else.  But we stayed in touch on MSN till he suddenly defriend me on FB recently


I care everyone on my friend’s list.  They are not a stranger.  So defriend anyone is not easy to me.  No matter what reasons.


Well, it makes me think of a movie.  “Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind”

Is it as easy as by pressing a delete button? 

Did I tell you I love you today?


Terrified by the natural disaster around.  Still vivid memories of tsunamis in S.E. Asia which killed more than 200 thousands people.  And recently, flooding in Queensland, Australia,  earthquakes in Christchurch, NZ, and two days ago, earthquake and tsunami in Japan.  Seems the earth is complaining about our over exploitation. 

Life is more than fragile.  Not in our control.  I enjoyed ship horns before.  It was kinda of lullaby to  me.  But feel scared now.  Feel like a ship lost direction and control.  Crashing to shore. 


It is a relief to see Japanese are so strong and so discipline.  Though they are suffered from such a huge disaster, they are offering help to tourists who stuck over there.  Helping them to get through such bad situation even they are in great pain.

There might has a second meltdown in the nuclear plant at Iwaki.  Hope they can shut it down in time.  If not, another big and painful disaster is ahead.  More people would have a long term suffer.

Pray for the best. 

No one knows what tomorrow will bring.  Don’t hesitate to tell your family, your friends and people you cared, you love them a lots.


Love ya.


date with blackberry or iphone?


Alex, Bob or Calvin?

Alex: kept his blackberry in pocket.  He was relaxed.  Not anxious about if missing any calls or messages.  Enjoyed time being with his date.  Well, found that he checked his blackberry when his date went to washroom.

Bob, he kept his blackberry in pocket.  Checked it almost every 10 mins.  Kept saying sorry.  Away and answered “important” calls.  Left his date alone.

Calvin, had both blackberry and iphone.  Put it on table once sat down.  Couldn’t tell he spent time with blackberry or iphone more.  Seems equal important and he peeked at the phones frequently.   Of course, spent time in text and messages as well.  Cute that he sent text to his date as well in between. 

So you prefer to date with Alex, Bob or Calvin?  Or with your cell phone?