Right one

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Read a passage online, wanted to share

Instead of asking if we found the right one, we should ask if we are willing to love and learn the person we found.  Everyone could be the right one if we want.  It depends on our decisions.

Here is the passage

AM I WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?

During a seminar, a woman asked,” How do I know if I am with the right person?”

The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?” In all seriousness, she answered “How do you know?” Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind replied the author.

Here’s the answer.

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.

People in love sometimes say, “I was swept of my feet.”Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is NOT finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO.”

ready?

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You said I am not ready, a month ago

You asked me to let you know when I am ready

You asked me if I am ready, again

Frankly, I don’t think anyone is not ready for love

Why am I not ready?

Or we are just not for each other?

I am in a dilemma……

Sigh……..

Love could be easy

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He is 27, living in U.K.  She is 31, living in Brazil.

She sent him tickets to visit her in Jan,  then flew to U.K. and celebrating Valentine’s Day with him.

Just a couple of months.   He decided to give up the dream place to live.  And move to live with that lady and start a new life.

Love could be so easy and simple.  U don’t have to have those “love locks” on bridges.

What you need is “youth”

Wish them a sweet new page of life ahead.

Love and luck

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What stands out from the photo?

Cloud?

Road?

Traffic?

A construction site?

Can you tell what is in the middle?

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I am sure you know what it is though it was not completed.

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Started to “hang” wheel’s cart on it…….

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It is still there after the typhoon.

I don’t care what it called.  You can called it Ferris Wheel, Hong Kong Eye or whatever ……

I am sure no one can forget the first time riding Ferris Wheel when you were a kid.

Some people said it brings luck and love

Please keep rotating.  More and more people will have luck and love.

Smiling…….