ways to get someone new


 Drinks with someone hadn’t met for a year.  Asked him ways to meet someone new.  Well, that’s not my intention to have drinks with him.  Anyway, here are his suggestions

1) Do something new.  Don’t just stay in office or home. 

He is right.  Something new is the best motivation to move forward.  But I said learning scuba diving ten years ago………..Guess you knew I still keep saying so now 😛 

2) Dating site

No.  I am old fashion about that.  Too many fake and cheaters there.  No.  I don’t want to get hurt.  And I am not good at “selling’ myself.  

But he is right at one point.  Can get to know more people with common interests.   So even if that person is not the right one,  might be his friend would be.  hahaha good to know more friends.  But sorry no.  No dating site.  I am stubborn.  No

3)  stay online

I have spent too much time online.  I am on internet diet.  So hadn’t heard what he said about that. 

Seems I am hopeless  😛

Anyway, was a good catch up.  Might be will meet up again next year…………..


16 thoughts on “ways to get someone new

  1. lol how well I know the internet diet- LOL  how well I know that feeling of hey wait a minute I’m doing new stuff alll the time! hey wait a minute all I ever do anymore is run into people with new additions to their lives and mine a weeeee bit emptier 😀  may “and this is my wife/husband” sting the single to get off their butts.

  2. tell me when you find out, I’ve been trying but no luck really.Dating sites are a bit stupid, I’d rather find someone new with common interest. I can’t believe how many girls on dating sites all say the same kind of thing “want a funny guy, someone who doesn’t cheat, I like shopping and travelling”Maybe I’m destined to be single 😛 Anyway, let me know some tips maybe about how to talk to women, haha, I’ve never been a player nor have I really tried to date anyone.. but now I’m getting older and slightly more desperate 😛

  3. @MichellelyNg – well, it’s easy to talk to people, I talk to a lot of people, women included. It’s not hard in real life! I actually strike up conversations and keep them going pretty easily.But on dating sites, I have to send the first message, and seriously, 9 times out of 10 I don’t even get a reply. Obviously I’m saying something wrong, or there are many guys who are much better looking or interesting than I am 🙂

  4. @MichellelyNg – well you’re a woman, don’t you get a ton of messages? I’m not tall or handsome enough to get messages…Sometimes I do think they don’t know what they’re missing out on, haha, oh well, I’ll just treat myself well while I’m single and have as much fun as I could 🙂

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